"The Good Daughter" by Karin Slaughter
Oh, Karin. I never know if I should love you or loathe you.
This book had me sucked in from the get-go which is how Slaughter got me on last book I read, "The Kept Women". Even though I love how she keeps you on the edge trying to figure out who did what, I really do not like how she puts her books together. She seems to be all over the place and I don't know if I start to space off a little while reading but I will come across a paragraph and sit in wonder of how I got from there to here. Drives me crazy!
There are a lot of twists which keeps you engaged. There were times when I figured out a plot twist before it was exposed. There were times when I was completely thrown off. I also am annoyed with how Slaughter takes one scene and repeats it multiple times from a different characters point of view. It's a waste of pages to me, especially when my reading time is limited!
"The Good Daughter" is about two sisters who experience the most unimaginable tragedy only to have it drudged up again 28 years later. They've barely spoken to each other, or their father, throughout that time and all three end up back in their hometown to lawyer up for the innocent until proven guilty.
All-in-all, this was a good book from the suspense persepective, and maybe I'll read another one of her books, but I'll leave it up to you to take Karin Slaughter upon yourself!
Friday, October 6, 2017
Tuesday, October 3, 2017
Week 35: August 28
"Hidden Figures" by Margot Lee Shetterly
I've been wanting to see this movie but came upon the book first so though I'd give it a whirl.
"Hidden Figures" tells the story of female, black engineers working at NACA, later to be called NASA. These women have to endure the hardships of not only being black, but also of being female. The story goes into depth on racial tensions and gender equality that took place from the 1940's to the 1970's.
The book makes a great point on how ignorance can stall advancement. Accomplishments are made because the right person for the job is completing the task. Maybe we could've advanced more back then and maybe we could advance even more now if we always had that on our minds instead of holding each other or ourselves back.
I'm anxious to see the movie and I encourage you to read the book!
I've been wanting to see this movie but came upon the book first so though I'd give it a whirl.
"Hidden Figures" tells the story of female, black engineers working at NACA, later to be called NASA. These women have to endure the hardships of not only being black, but also of being female. The story goes into depth on racial tensions and gender equality that took place from the 1940's to the 1970's.
The book makes a great point on how ignorance can stall advancement. Accomplishments are made because the right person for the job is completing the task. Maybe we could've advanced more back then and maybe we could advance even more now if we always had that on our minds instead of holding each other or ourselves back.
I'm anxious to see the movie and I encourage you to read the book!
Sunday, October 1, 2017
Week 34: August 21
"The Sacred Acre: The Ed Thomas Story" by Mark Tabb and the Ed Thomas Family
I heard Aaron Thomas, Ed's son, speak at the school during back to school meetings and wanted to hear more of his story. Hearing Aaron speak of the tragedies his family has faced and how they persevered and made it through each one is true adversity.
The Thomas family is from a small town in Iowa where Ed was the AD and head football coach. In 2008, a tornado devastated the town and left the Thomas family, and much of their neighbors, with nothing. Then in 2009, the unimaginable happened and Ed was shot and killed by one of his former players.
Being a coach's wife myself, I have a fear that someone could come after my husband. Whether it be the students themselves or the parents. This is the wrong mindset to have but I remember hearing about this in the news and thinking to myself that this could be my husband someday. It's a scary feeling and certainly not one you should get by being a coach. Firefighter, police officer, sure. But a coach?
The family handles their adversity beautifully and show amazing grace to those responsible. This book was a good read.
I heard Aaron Thomas, Ed's son, speak at the school during back to school meetings and wanted to hear more of his story. Hearing Aaron speak of the tragedies his family has faced and how they persevered and made it through each one is true adversity.
The Thomas family is from a small town in Iowa where Ed was the AD and head football coach. In 2008, a tornado devastated the town and left the Thomas family, and much of their neighbors, with nothing. Then in 2009, the unimaginable happened and Ed was shot and killed by one of his former players.
Being a coach's wife myself, I have a fear that someone could come after my husband. Whether it be the students themselves or the parents. This is the wrong mindset to have but I remember hearing about this in the news and thinking to myself that this could be my husband someday. It's a scary feeling and certainly not one you should get by being a coach. Firefighter, police officer, sure. But a coach?
The family handles their adversity beautifully and show amazing grace to those responsible. This book was a good read.
Wednesday, August 30, 2017
Week 33: August 14
"The Book Thief" by Markus Zusak
I started out a little disappointed as I couldn't figure out the narrator and the random bolded side stories were distracting. Thankfully, that turned around and I was able to thoroughly enjoy this book!
During WWII, Leisel is dropped off to live with foster parents for her safety. The Book Thief tells her story of how she coped with the tragedies and changes that have occurred, one of which, stealing books. She shows incredible determination to learn to read and write when it seems all around her she is set up for failure.
The last 200 pages were a tough go as I was constantly tearing up. This is a great book and it has lived up to the hype!
Tuesday, August 15, 2017
Week 32: August 7
"After You" by JoJo Moyes
I was a little skeptical that I would enjoy this book as I have found the sequels are never as good as the originals (unless it's a series) especially where "Me Before You" had such an intense emotional message. But I'm happy to say that I really liked this one!
Lou has now had to live for the last 18 months with the guilt she felt for failing Will's family as he decided to end his life. She has traveled and now lives in London as a barmaid, not exactly what she envisioned Will wanted for her.
This book takes you through Lou's grief and her attempts to move on. Tragedy and life come into play as she just can't seem to get it all right.
I loved how Moyes continued Lou's story. I would definitely recommend this sequel!
I was a little skeptical that I would enjoy this book as I have found the sequels are never as good as the originals (unless it's a series) especially where "Me Before You" had such an intense emotional message. But I'm happy to say that I really liked this one!
Lou has now had to live for the last 18 months with the guilt she felt for failing Will's family as he decided to end his life. She has traveled and now lives in London as a barmaid, not exactly what she envisioned Will wanted for her.
This book takes you through Lou's grief and her attempts to move on. Tragedy and life come into play as she just can't seem to get it all right.
I loved how Moyes continued Lou's story. I would definitely recommend this sequel!
Sunday, August 13, 2017
Week 31: July 31
"The Florence Prescription: From Accountability to Ownership" by Joe Tye with Dick Schwab and forward by Charles S. Lauer
If you think this book is about the history and perseverance of Miss Florence Nightengale or is a motivating book on how to stay positive while working in healthcare, you were sadly mistken.
I received this book when I started my job 4 years ago and just now decided to actually read it as it was my last week there and I did have this goal to read 52 books in one year. But I was disappointed within the first 10 pages and I can tell you, I was left with no excitement to get out there and be the best healthcare professional I could be!
No offense to Tye and Schwab, but putting a fantasy spin on a make believe hospital to try to motivate your workers will only leave them feeling like you think they are children that can't do their jobs. Yes, the book had some good points such as how there should be no caste system in the hospital (which there is) and how all employees should feel like they have an ownership in the workings of the hospital. It's all a very nice idea but rarely gets truly promoted.
I strongly recommend not giving this book to your employees with the hope that it will change their outlook. In these instances I feel like the true success stories are what make employees buy into the concept. Keep to those folks! And above all else, no matter what book you throw at your workers, no matter how many motivational speakers you have, what gets people changing is to SEE it in their leaders. Not the talk, but the action. This will get the ball rolling more than anything else I feel like.
If you think this book is about the history and perseverance of Miss Florence Nightengale or is a motivating book on how to stay positive while working in healthcare, you were sadly mistken.
I received this book when I started my job 4 years ago and just now decided to actually read it as it was my last week there and I did have this goal to read 52 books in one year. But I was disappointed within the first 10 pages and I can tell you, I was left with no excitement to get out there and be the best healthcare professional I could be!
No offense to Tye and Schwab, but putting a fantasy spin on a make believe hospital to try to motivate your workers will only leave them feeling like you think they are children that can't do their jobs. Yes, the book had some good points such as how there should be no caste system in the hospital (which there is) and how all employees should feel like they have an ownership in the workings of the hospital. It's all a very nice idea but rarely gets truly promoted.
I strongly recommend not giving this book to your employees with the hope that it will change their outlook. In these instances I feel like the true success stories are what make employees buy into the concept. Keep to those folks! And above all else, no matter what book you throw at your workers, no matter how many motivational speakers you have, what gets people changing is to SEE it in their leaders. Not the talk, but the action. This will get the ball rolling more than anything else I feel like.
Monday, August 7, 2017
Week 30: July 24
"The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts" by Gary Chapman
I was excited to dive into this book because not only had I heard great things about it, but I wanted to look at this as a chance to better my own marriage. Not to say our marriage needed any immediate help, but it never hurts to try and understand each other and to treat each other a little better to show your love for one another.
The 5 Love Languages that Dr. Chapman describes are:
1) Words of Affirmation
2) Quality Time
3) Gifts
4) Acts of Service
5) Physical Touch
He describes each of these in their own chapter and paints a clear and easy picture of how to understand the languages of each. Some I realized overlap a bit but it was good to have examples of real couples going through each of these languages.
The biggest takeaway was the realization of not only your own love language but the love language of your spouse and how you need to overcome any hesitations or discomforts to learn their language. I thought I had BJ's all figured out but it turns out I was wrong. I thought I knew my own but, again, I realized it was another.
I always thought mine was Acts of Service because I get so discouraged when BJ doesn't help me with the daily chores. Diving in a bit more, I realized it to be more Quality Time. I enjoy it most when we do things together, including chores, and work as a team I feel the most content and loved.
I always thought BJ's was Words of Affirmation but thinking back to arguments we've had, I think he's more of a Quality Time also. Dr. Chapman was quick to point out that two of the same languages don't necessarily mean peace and harmony. There are also different dialects to think about.
This was a fun read that made you look to yourself, put yourself in the hot seat to get answers. I encourage all to take a look at this book!
I was excited to dive into this book because not only had I heard great things about it, but I wanted to look at this as a chance to better my own marriage. Not to say our marriage needed any immediate help, but it never hurts to try and understand each other and to treat each other a little better to show your love for one another.
The 5 Love Languages that Dr. Chapman describes are:
1) Words of Affirmation
2) Quality Time
3) Gifts
4) Acts of Service
5) Physical Touch
He describes each of these in their own chapter and paints a clear and easy picture of how to understand the languages of each. Some I realized overlap a bit but it was good to have examples of real couples going through each of these languages.
The biggest takeaway was the realization of not only your own love language but the love language of your spouse and how you need to overcome any hesitations or discomforts to learn their language. I thought I had BJ's all figured out but it turns out I was wrong. I thought I knew my own but, again, I realized it was another.
I always thought mine was Acts of Service because I get so discouraged when BJ doesn't help me with the daily chores. Diving in a bit more, I realized it to be more Quality Time. I enjoy it most when we do things together, including chores, and work as a team I feel the most content and loved.
I always thought BJ's was Words of Affirmation but thinking back to arguments we've had, I think he's more of a Quality Time also. Dr. Chapman was quick to point out that two of the same languages don't necessarily mean peace and harmony. There are also different dialects to think about.
This was a fun read that made you look to yourself, put yourself in the hot seat to get answers. I encourage all to take a look at this book!
Saturday, August 5, 2017
Week 29: July 17
"Hebrews" of the Bible
This might still be considered cheating but when I'm three weeks behind the Bible is also a good way to catch up :)
The Letter to the Hebrews encourages people to abandon the old covenant and embrace the new covenant of God. The author does this by emphasizing the sacrifice of Jesus Christ and how his blood shed basically trumps that of the bloodshed of livestock that the Old Testament of the Bible encouraged.
When I read of Christ's life, I always feel such a guilt at all he had to endure to ensure we could experience the Kingdom of Heaven. He was alive just as we are alive. He had to grow through infancy, childhood, adolescence, adulthood, just as we do. And yet, he did so with purity. I think sometimes we assume that the world didn't have the same issues as we encounter now but we are so wrong! There was evil 2,000 years ago just the same as now. There was indecency, homosexuality, abortion, murder, theft....all these sins were present then just as they are now and yet Jesus Christ was able to hold strong to his faith as become our savior.
He was given the same ridicule and peer pressure that we all receive daily in our lives and it is such a defeated feeling to me that I cannot even come close to 10% of the disciplinarian that Christ was. In "Hebrews" it talks of Christ's time in purgatory....Yes, Jesus had to endure purgatory as a perfect human being with no sin. It makes me fearful for how long I will have to endure the time of purification before I am able to enter the gates of heaven.
"Hebrews" also talks of how our sufferings actually bring us closer to God, which is also something I've had to come to terms with throughout my life. Our lives are not meant to be without obstacles. It is through these challenges, through these sufferings that we become reliant on God and on Christ's sacrifice to push through these challenges. I noticed that "by faith" was a frequented beginning to a sentence because it is "by faith" that we grow and mature to tackle those challenges and become better people.
I continue to encourage myself to look to the Bible as a refresher of what God has in store for all of us after our time on Earth. Although this may count as cheating such some of the books are shorter, I will never regret diving into the word of the Lord to better myself and to encourage a richer meaning of life.
This might still be considered cheating but when I'm three weeks behind the Bible is also a good way to catch up :)
The Letter to the Hebrews encourages people to abandon the old covenant and embrace the new covenant of God. The author does this by emphasizing the sacrifice of Jesus Christ and how his blood shed basically trumps that of the bloodshed of livestock that the Old Testament of the Bible encouraged.
When I read of Christ's life, I always feel such a guilt at all he had to endure to ensure we could experience the Kingdom of Heaven. He was alive just as we are alive. He had to grow through infancy, childhood, adolescence, adulthood, just as we do. And yet, he did so with purity. I think sometimes we assume that the world didn't have the same issues as we encounter now but we are so wrong! There was evil 2,000 years ago just the same as now. There was indecency, homosexuality, abortion, murder, theft....all these sins were present then just as they are now and yet Jesus Christ was able to hold strong to his faith as become our savior.
He was given the same ridicule and peer pressure that we all receive daily in our lives and it is such a defeated feeling to me that I cannot even come close to 10% of the disciplinarian that Christ was. In "Hebrews" it talks of Christ's time in purgatory....Yes, Jesus had to endure purgatory as a perfect human being with no sin. It makes me fearful for how long I will have to endure the time of purification before I am able to enter the gates of heaven.
"Hebrews" also talks of how our sufferings actually bring us closer to God, which is also something I've had to come to terms with throughout my life. Our lives are not meant to be without obstacles. It is through these challenges, through these sufferings that we become reliant on God and on Christ's sacrifice to push through these challenges. I noticed that "by faith" was a frequented beginning to a sentence because it is "by faith" that we grow and mature to tackle those challenges and become better people.
I continue to encourage myself to look to the Bible as a refresher of what God has in store for all of us after our time on Earth. Although this may count as cheating such some of the books are shorter, I will never regret diving into the word of the Lord to better myself and to encourage a richer meaning of life.
Saturday, July 29, 2017
Week 28: July 10
"Me Before You" by JoJo Moyes
I have yet to see the movie but really did enjoy the book.
Again another page turner as you try to figure out if Will is really going to die or if Lou can save him.
I hate to hear when people feel they need to end their lives but I had nothing but sympathy for Will as the life he knew was gone. I really had to think about what I would want in his position and realized it would be hard for anyone to want to continue to life that way.
I made me begin to questions the different between, "DNR" and "assisted suicide". When you think about it, what's the difference? With DNR the person is usually under some sort of medical duress and has previously requested not to be sustained. With assisted suicide, the medical duress has passed and you are sustained but still feel you need to end your life. Now I agree that God is the only one to decide whether you live or die but where's the line of human/medical intervention?
Lou tries to make Will realize that there is still life to live but is it enough? Would it be enough for you or me?
I have yet to see the movie but really did enjoy the book.
Again another page turner as you try to figure out if Will is really going to die or if Lou can save him.
I hate to hear when people feel they need to end their lives but I had nothing but sympathy for Will as the life he knew was gone. I really had to think about what I would want in his position and realized it would be hard for anyone to want to continue to life that way.
I made me begin to questions the different between, "DNR" and "assisted suicide". When you think about it, what's the difference? With DNR the person is usually under some sort of medical duress and has previously requested not to be sustained. With assisted suicide, the medical duress has passed and you are sustained but still feel you need to end your life. Now I agree that God is the only one to decide whether you live or die but where's the line of human/medical intervention?
Lou tries to make Will realize that there is still life to live but is it enough? Would it be enough for you or me?
Week 27: July 3
"All the Light We Cannot See" by Anthony Doerr
Another WWII book that I loved!
This is the story of two lives that become intertwined during the war. Both are teenagers, one a blind girl and the other a young Nazi soldier.
I couldn't imagine life in this era, in Europe. The uncertainty of what was happening as radio and newspapers were banned, the lies told by the government as most were living in poverty from decreased rations. It was such a crazy time.
The book takes you through the height of the war, before so many were brainwashed by Hitler's teachings to when new soldiers were oblivious to the wrongs they were being taught and killing was just a way of life. The young soldier we follow is brought into the war based on his ability with radios. He already has his doubts on the treatment of others and he sees first hand what happens when you stand up against the Nazi soldiers.
The girl has her father taken away by a greedy soldier that wants a special jewel that the museum has hidden from the Nazi's. She lives out the war with her uncle and caretaker and suffers so much loss but chooses rebellion also. For being blind, she proves to be a heroine and disability does not overshadow what's right and wrong.
As with any war book I read, I'm always left with the same question: when will WWIII begin?
Another WWII book that I loved!
This is the story of two lives that become intertwined during the war. Both are teenagers, one a blind girl and the other a young Nazi soldier.
I couldn't imagine life in this era, in Europe. The uncertainty of what was happening as radio and newspapers were banned, the lies told by the government as most were living in poverty from decreased rations. It was such a crazy time.
The book takes you through the height of the war, before so many were brainwashed by Hitler's teachings to when new soldiers were oblivious to the wrongs they were being taught and killing was just a way of life. The young soldier we follow is brought into the war based on his ability with radios. He already has his doubts on the treatment of others and he sees first hand what happens when you stand up against the Nazi soldiers.
The girl has her father taken away by a greedy soldier that wants a special jewel that the museum has hidden from the Nazi's. She lives out the war with her uncle and caretaker and suffers so much loss but chooses rebellion also. For being blind, she proves to be a heroine and disability does not overshadow what's right and wrong.
As with any war book I read, I'm always left with the same question: when will WWIII begin?
Week 26: June 26
"Inferno" by Dan Brown
I am a fan of Dan Brown because of the history he always brings into his books. It always takes me a little longer to read than I'd like to admit because I'm constantly looking up the art and architecture he mentions.
"Inferno" had no limits of suspension and excitement to keep you turning the pages, but I do have to admit it wasn't my favorite Dan Brown book. There were a few too many twists and turns to the point that I began to lose interest and just wanted the book to be over. There was even a twist that I wonder if Dan Brown realized he put in there because he never did go back to explain it which was a waste of about 15 pages.
Maybe I'll be able to forgive him and move on to "The Lost Symbol" someday :)
I am a fan of Dan Brown because of the history he always brings into his books. It always takes me a little longer to read than I'd like to admit because I'm constantly looking up the art and architecture he mentions.
"Inferno" had no limits of suspension and excitement to keep you turning the pages, but I do have to admit it wasn't my favorite Dan Brown book. There were a few too many twists and turns to the point that I began to lose interest and just wanted the book to be over. There was even a twist that I wonder if Dan Brown realized he put in there because he never did go back to explain it which was a waste of about 15 pages.
Maybe I'll be able to forgive him and move on to "The Lost Symbol" someday :)
Week 25: June 19
"Sing Me Home" by Jodi Picoult
This book really made me think about issues I was already not comfortable with. It starts out innocent enough and then the problems begin.
Divorce, homosexuality, IFV, exploitation of churches......all issues that I'm not the biggest supporter of but the story was a good one.
This is a story of sacrifice and loss that the main character uses music to get through.
Overall, it was a good read but like I said, it made me uncomfortable.
This book really made me think about issues I was already not comfortable with. It starts out innocent enough and then the problems begin.
Divorce, homosexuality, IFV, exploitation of churches......all issues that I'm not the biggest supporter of but the story was a good one.
This is a story of sacrifice and loss that the main character uses music to get through.
Overall, it was a good read but like I said, it made me uncomfortable.
Week 24: June 12
"Songs of Solomon' by Solomon
I may have cheated this week but technically, "Songs of Solomon" is a book...in the Bible.
I actually chose to read this for two reasons: 1) I needed something short as the process of packing/moving/life proved to be difficult for me to spend a whole lot of time reading and 2) my husband and I had just gotten into a BIG fight and I felt I needed to be reminded of love.
When I was younger, Songs of Solomon was my favorite book of the Bible because I could understand it. The desire, the need for another, the anticipation. There wasn't a whole lot of deciphering or arguments on the context as with most books of the Bible. This book is one purely of the love of another.
I needed to read this at this moment because I needed to be reminded of the yearning and love I have for my husband. Marriage isn't easy and there are going to be downs as well as ups. Being reminded of that initial feeling we had in the early stages of love helped me to realize that we will get through this fight just as we had before.
I would recommend referring to the Bible more often when you find yourself in times of anger and loss. God always has the answers.
I may have cheated this week but technically, "Songs of Solomon" is a book...in the Bible.
I actually chose to read this for two reasons: 1) I needed something short as the process of packing/moving/life proved to be difficult for me to spend a whole lot of time reading and 2) my husband and I had just gotten into a BIG fight and I felt I needed to be reminded of love.
When I was younger, Songs of Solomon was my favorite book of the Bible because I could understand it. The desire, the need for another, the anticipation. There wasn't a whole lot of deciphering or arguments on the context as with most books of the Bible. This book is one purely of the love of another.
I needed to read this at this moment because I needed to be reminded of the yearning and love I have for my husband. Marriage isn't easy and there are going to be downs as well as ups. Being reminded of that initial feeling we had in the early stages of love helped me to realize that we will get through this fight just as we had before.
I would recommend referring to the Bible more often when you find yourself in times of anger and loss. God always has the answers.
Monday, June 12, 2017
Week 23: June 5
"Wonder" by R.J. Palacio
This book has jumped into my top 3 favorite books! It is such a beautiful story of how kindness goes a long way.
While reading this book, I would take many stops to remind my children to be nice to everyone they come in contact with. Whether they don't like them or they look different, act different. Always be kind.
It's hard enough to start a new school and when you have an abnormality, it makes it all the more difficult. You see the true character of a child come out, for better or worse. In the end, its kindness that wins out. Author is 10 years old and up until now has been homeschooled when his parents realize he needs someone more experienced to teach him the more complicated subjects. You see the story from mostly Auggie's perspective and just when you get angry with the reactions of other's, R.J. assigns a section to them, explaining what their thoughts were.
This book is a great reminder of how all individuals deserve our respect and kindness in all circumstances. Enjoy!
This book has jumped into my top 3 favorite books! It is such a beautiful story of how kindness goes a long way.
While reading this book, I would take many stops to remind my children to be nice to everyone they come in contact with. Whether they don't like them or they look different, act different. Always be kind.
It's hard enough to start a new school and when you have an abnormality, it makes it all the more difficult. You see the true character of a child come out, for better or worse. In the end, its kindness that wins out. Author is 10 years old and up until now has been homeschooled when his parents realize he needs someone more experienced to teach him the more complicated subjects. You see the story from mostly Auggie's perspective and just when you get angry with the reactions of other's, R.J. assigns a section to them, explaining what their thoughts were.
This book is a great reminder of how all individuals deserve our respect and kindness in all circumstances. Enjoy!
Monday, June 5, 2017
Week 22: May 29
"Lunch in Paris: A Love Story with Recipes" by Elizabeth Bard
I wasn't sure about this book when I first picked it up and but I have to say I was pleasantly surprised. "Lunch in Paris" is the story of an American woman, Elizabeth Bard, that meets and falls in love with a Frenchman. This is her story of leaving the States behind to begin her new life in Paris with the man that she loves.
Elizabeth Bard's has such a great sense of humor in this story that it's hard not to fall in love with her. There are moments she seems to have it all together and then everything falls apart in humorous fashion. She has the sarcastic, goal-driven qualitites of a New Yorker mixed in with the laid-back, family focused French way of life that makes easy to like.
This book really makes you want to run to another country. To learn other cultures and ways of life. To jump into the unknown territory and fight the urge to run whenever a challenge presents itself. To realize that nothing is impossible if you have an amazing support system.
I really enjoyed this book and I hope you will, too!
I wasn't sure about this book when I first picked it up and but I have to say I was pleasantly surprised. "Lunch in Paris" is the story of an American woman, Elizabeth Bard, that meets and falls in love with a Frenchman. This is her story of leaving the States behind to begin her new life in Paris with the man that she loves.
Elizabeth Bard's has such a great sense of humor in this story that it's hard not to fall in love with her. There are moments she seems to have it all together and then everything falls apart in humorous fashion. She has the sarcastic, goal-driven qualitites of a New Yorker mixed in with the laid-back, family focused French way of life that makes easy to like.
This book really makes you want to run to another country. To learn other cultures and ways of life. To jump into the unknown territory and fight the urge to run whenever a challenge presents itself. To realize that nothing is impossible if you have an amazing support system.
I really enjoyed this book and I hope you will, too!
Tuesday, May 30, 2017
Week 21: May 22
"The Red Tent" by Anita Diamant
In the Bible, Dinah, daughter of Jacob, is the victim of rape which two of her older brothers avenge in a gruesome bloodbath. This novel tells a different story. A story of love, suffering, and betrayal for Dinah was not raped but was in love and her families pride turned her into a victim.
This story follows Dinah's life from learning the mysteries of womanhood in the red tent to discovering her own way after disowning her family.
The beginning had me a bit uncomfortable reading of sexual tendencies, which aren't as different as we see today, and trying to wrap my head around Jacob marrying four sisters. All siblings are also cousins! Weird.
Overall, I enjoyed this book and feel it's worth the read!
In the Bible, Dinah, daughter of Jacob, is the victim of rape which two of her older brothers avenge in a gruesome bloodbath. This novel tells a different story. A story of love, suffering, and betrayal for Dinah was not raped but was in love and her families pride turned her into a victim.
This story follows Dinah's life from learning the mysteries of womanhood in the red tent to discovering her own way after disowning her family.
The beginning had me a bit uncomfortable reading of sexual tendencies, which aren't as different as we see today, and trying to wrap my head around Jacob marrying four sisters. All siblings are also cousins! Weird.
Overall, I enjoyed this book and feel it's worth the read!
Saturday, May 20, 2017
Week 20: May 15
"Pastrix: the Cranky, Beautiful Faith of a Sinner & Saint" by Nadia Bolz-Weber
I love reading of others' faith journeys and Nadia's was no exception. Even though I didn't agree with everything she had to say, I always appreciate a person's journey to believing in God and accepting Jesus Christ as their savior.
Nadia is a very passionate woman who grew up knowing an angry God and only through her good works could be accepted into the Kingdom of Heaven. Realizing she wasn't a good person in her congregation's eyes, she gave up Christianity and went down a self-destructive path. After a friend's death, she was awaken with the desire to know Christ which led her to become a Lutheran pastor.
She focuses on the gift of God's grace and how suffering is such a part of Christianity. She's not afraid to say that she doesn't have all the answers which can be so refreshing! I feel like a lot of people feel the need to always have the answers to life's obstacles when really there is so much we don't understand, will never understand, that it's nice to have the truth. The truth that life is messy and doesn't always make sense.
Nadia's writing was honest, sometimes harsh, but always real. I would recommend this one!
I love reading of others' faith journeys and Nadia's was no exception. Even though I didn't agree with everything she had to say, I always appreciate a person's journey to believing in God and accepting Jesus Christ as their savior.
Nadia is a very passionate woman who grew up knowing an angry God and only through her good works could be accepted into the Kingdom of Heaven. Realizing she wasn't a good person in her congregation's eyes, she gave up Christianity and went down a self-destructive path. After a friend's death, she was awaken with the desire to know Christ which led her to become a Lutheran pastor.
She focuses on the gift of God's grace and how suffering is such a part of Christianity. She's not afraid to say that she doesn't have all the answers which can be so refreshing! I feel like a lot of people feel the need to always have the answers to life's obstacles when really there is so much we don't understand, will never understand, that it's nice to have the truth. The truth that life is messy and doesn't always make sense.
Nadia's writing was honest, sometimes harsh, but always real. I would recommend this one!
Tuesday, May 16, 2017
Week 19: May 8
"The Chemist" by Stephanie Meyer
Don't. Just don't. Don't waste time on this book. I honestly wanted to quit reading it but, like I've said, it's a flaw of mine to have to finish what I start. I admit I enjoyed "The Twilight Series" the first time around, I tolerated "The Host" but this was just bad. When it takes me four days to read the first 100 pages, only to realize the book is over 500 pages, I know it's a book I'll have to suffer through. There was a lot of skimming pages towards the end.
I didn't even want to bother with a blog on this one and then I realized that if I couldn't save myself from the horribleness of this book, I could save someone else. I just hope my negative review doesn't make you curious and you endure the same pain that I did.
Let me begin...
The main character was overly paranoid which made her overly annoying to me. I was hoping she would just die so that I didn't have to read her five-possible scenerios of how she could be killed or who could kill her or how she could plan on not getting killed. It was overkill.
Then we have the usual Stephanie Meyer of someone falling so desperately in love within a matter of hours. There were many times (I do mean many) the main character would reflect on how the last few hours seemed to be hours ago. Honey, I know the pain. I thought it would never end.
There were maybe 100 pages of actual excitement of the book but nothing that made up for the other 400 pages of annoyance. But I made it through. I really am sorry to feel so negatively towards this book but I just can't help myself.
Read at your own risk.
Don't. Just don't. Don't waste time on this book. I honestly wanted to quit reading it but, like I've said, it's a flaw of mine to have to finish what I start. I admit I enjoyed "The Twilight Series" the first time around, I tolerated "The Host" but this was just bad. When it takes me four days to read the first 100 pages, only to realize the book is over 500 pages, I know it's a book I'll have to suffer through. There was a lot of skimming pages towards the end.
I didn't even want to bother with a blog on this one and then I realized that if I couldn't save myself from the horribleness of this book, I could save someone else. I just hope my negative review doesn't make you curious and you endure the same pain that I did.
Let me begin...
The main character was overly paranoid which made her overly annoying to me. I was hoping she would just die so that I didn't have to read her five-possible scenerios of how she could be killed or who could kill her or how she could plan on not getting killed. It was overkill.
Then we have the usual Stephanie Meyer of someone falling so desperately in love within a matter of hours. There were many times (I do mean many) the main character would reflect on how the last few hours seemed to be hours ago. Honey, I know the pain. I thought it would never end.
There were maybe 100 pages of actual excitement of the book but nothing that made up for the other 400 pages of annoyance. But I made it through. I really am sorry to feel so negatively towards this book but I just can't help myself.
Read at your own risk.
Sunday, May 7, 2017
Week 18: May 1
"The Maze Runner" by James Dashner
It didn't dawn on me that this book was a series, not to mention how many books are in this series, until after I had dived in. A fault of mine is that if I start a series I have to finish it. So now I feel like I have to continue this series even though I'm not sure how I felt about the first book. The same thing happened with "Fifty Shades of Gray" and forcing myself to finish that was horrible! I'm hoping for a different outcome.
The suspense of the book and the short chapters kept me pushing through even though it was hard for me to really understand what was going on. The whole concept just seemed bizarre to me at first. I felt that I was coming up with answers quicker than the book and that some obvious solutions weren't even addressed until the end. This caused a lot of frustration with me and I don't handle frustration well! It was evident even when I stepped away from the book and became a little more annoyed than usual with my day-to-day tasks. Another fault of mine, I carry my emotions from a book into my real life. It drives BJ crazy!
Overall, though, I am left with more questions and plan on reading the entire series. It may not be right away as I wasn't planning on getting into a series right now, but I am somewhat excited to learn a little more about where James Dashner was going with this story.
A bit of an annoyance with the book...they included pictures from the movie. I am not a fan when a book does this, especially when the movie characters don't match up to the book characters. Let the book be the book. It usually ends up better than the movie anyway!
It didn't dawn on me that this book was a series, not to mention how many books are in this series, until after I had dived in. A fault of mine is that if I start a series I have to finish it. So now I feel like I have to continue this series even though I'm not sure how I felt about the first book. The same thing happened with "Fifty Shades of Gray" and forcing myself to finish that was horrible! I'm hoping for a different outcome.
The suspense of the book and the short chapters kept me pushing through even though it was hard for me to really understand what was going on. The whole concept just seemed bizarre to me at first. I felt that I was coming up with answers quicker than the book and that some obvious solutions weren't even addressed until the end. This caused a lot of frustration with me and I don't handle frustration well! It was evident even when I stepped away from the book and became a little more annoyed than usual with my day-to-day tasks. Another fault of mine, I carry my emotions from a book into my real life. It drives BJ crazy!
Overall, though, I am left with more questions and plan on reading the entire series. It may not be right away as I wasn't planning on getting into a series right now, but I am somewhat excited to learn a little more about where James Dashner was going with this story.
A bit of an annoyance with the book...they included pictures from the movie. I am not a fan when a book does this, especially when the movie characters don't match up to the book characters. Let the book be the book. It usually ends up better than the movie anyway!
Thursday, April 27, 2017
Week 17: April 24
"Killing Jesus" by Bill O'Reilly and Martin Dugard
I didn't know what to expect when I began this book. I know that Bill O'Reilly is an active Catholic so I figured it would be a positive view of Jesus Christ's life. There were a few things he mentioned that had me raising an eyebrow but for the most part, I enjoyed his history based account of our Savior.
I've always had a hard time figuring out where Jesus fell in history. In school we would learn of the Romans and their rule but I never did put two and two together. In a way, I feel cheated from my history classes. If we were allowed to learn about the Romans and other civilizations, not only in history class but in english class as well, how were we not allowed to learn of Jesus? He was the most influential historical figure and yet, he was never brought up in history class. As Mr. O'Reilly and Mr. Dugard have proven, you don't need to talk about Jesus in the Biblical/spiritual sense. You can talk about him in the historical sense. And why not? I think we should all have the oppurtunity to learn where all religions got their start. It's a vital part of our history as humans I feel. Let's embrace it instead of running from it or trying to hide it.
I went on a rant....I apologize!
When I read the Bible, it can be hard for me to bring things together and to really understand what was happening at the time that Jesus lived. What this book does is bring in the history surrounding Christ's death to life. What was the significance of crucifixion at that time? What were the politics going on? It really brings a new light to what Jesus went through and the hoops the Jewish high priests were jumping through, trying to have Jesus convicted with no true crime committed.
The life of Romans in this age remind me a lot of what is going on today. This explains why I can see so much being taught in the Bible relates to our society as it is now. It doesn't matter if it was 2,000 years ago, the same crap is still going on. It really is annoying that we have learned so little. One part that stuck out to me was the description of how Roman rulers would distract their people with pop culture such as plays or fights to the death in the arena, to avoid uprisings towards the government and how they rule. Sounds a bit too famiiar to me.
I enjoyed how Mr. O'Reilly and Mr. Dugard gave the background on other key prophets of that time such as John the Baptist and Judas of Gamala. I know John the Baptist from the Bible but didn't know about Judas of Gamala.
The main focus, obviously, is Jesus. Everytime I read what he went through, I become so emotional. Hearing of the last week of his life and how much agony he was feeling, asking God to spare his life, yet making sure it was by God's will and not his own. Jesus shows us true obedience to the Lord and knowing what he went through as someone without sin so that we, who have sinned countless times, may be saved. One part that made me realize the humily and obediance of Christ was when he sent two of his disciples to find a donkey. By Jesus riding a donkey into Jerusalen, not just walking in, fullfills the prophecy of him being the true Christ. The mindset that Jesus had to have at that time, to tell himself, "this is surely my death sentence", I had to put the book down. Hearing of the "death squad" and their forms of torture brought upon by criminals prior to being executed made it even more heart-breaking to know what Jesus did for us.
Yes, I know this all can be found in the Bible. And yes, I have read through this part of the Bible many times but I think it's easy to get distracted and not realize the true meaning of what is happening until someone explains it to you. As a human being, I want to focus on the good that comes out of Jesus's life and not reflect too much on the pain he suffered. Which is ridiculous because suffering is a part of life and to know his suffering creates more yearning from myself to follow him.
This book is yet another awakening of the sacrifice God made for us. Another reminder of how far I personnally have to go to live my Christian life the way He intended.
I didn't know what to expect when I began this book. I know that Bill O'Reilly is an active Catholic so I figured it would be a positive view of Jesus Christ's life. There were a few things he mentioned that had me raising an eyebrow but for the most part, I enjoyed his history based account of our Savior.
I've always had a hard time figuring out where Jesus fell in history. In school we would learn of the Romans and their rule but I never did put two and two together. In a way, I feel cheated from my history classes. If we were allowed to learn about the Romans and other civilizations, not only in history class but in english class as well, how were we not allowed to learn of Jesus? He was the most influential historical figure and yet, he was never brought up in history class. As Mr. O'Reilly and Mr. Dugard have proven, you don't need to talk about Jesus in the Biblical/spiritual sense. You can talk about him in the historical sense. And why not? I think we should all have the oppurtunity to learn where all religions got their start. It's a vital part of our history as humans I feel. Let's embrace it instead of running from it or trying to hide it.
I went on a rant....I apologize!
When I read the Bible, it can be hard for me to bring things together and to really understand what was happening at the time that Jesus lived. What this book does is bring in the history surrounding Christ's death to life. What was the significance of crucifixion at that time? What were the politics going on? It really brings a new light to what Jesus went through and the hoops the Jewish high priests were jumping through, trying to have Jesus convicted with no true crime committed.
The life of Romans in this age remind me a lot of what is going on today. This explains why I can see so much being taught in the Bible relates to our society as it is now. It doesn't matter if it was 2,000 years ago, the same crap is still going on. It really is annoying that we have learned so little. One part that stuck out to me was the description of how Roman rulers would distract their people with pop culture such as plays or fights to the death in the arena, to avoid uprisings towards the government and how they rule. Sounds a bit too famiiar to me.
I enjoyed how Mr. O'Reilly and Mr. Dugard gave the background on other key prophets of that time such as John the Baptist and Judas of Gamala. I know John the Baptist from the Bible but didn't know about Judas of Gamala.
The main focus, obviously, is Jesus. Everytime I read what he went through, I become so emotional. Hearing of the last week of his life and how much agony he was feeling, asking God to spare his life, yet making sure it was by God's will and not his own. Jesus shows us true obedience to the Lord and knowing what he went through as someone without sin so that we, who have sinned countless times, may be saved. One part that made me realize the humily and obediance of Christ was when he sent two of his disciples to find a donkey. By Jesus riding a donkey into Jerusalen, not just walking in, fullfills the prophecy of him being the true Christ. The mindset that Jesus had to have at that time, to tell himself, "this is surely my death sentence", I had to put the book down. Hearing of the "death squad" and their forms of torture brought upon by criminals prior to being executed made it even more heart-breaking to know what Jesus did for us.
Yes, I know this all can be found in the Bible. And yes, I have read through this part of the Bible many times but I think it's easy to get distracted and not realize the true meaning of what is happening until someone explains it to you. As a human being, I want to focus on the good that comes out of Jesus's life and not reflect too much on the pain he suffered. Which is ridiculous because suffering is a part of life and to know his suffering creates more yearning from myself to follow him.
This book is yet another awakening of the sacrifice God made for us. Another reminder of how far I personnally have to go to live my Christian life the way He intended.
Saturday, April 22, 2017
Week 16: April 17
"Is It Night or Day?" by Fern Schumer Chapman
WWII will forever fascinate me and this book introduced me to another aspect of the war that I had never given much thought to. This is the true story of a 12 year-old girl whose family chose to send her to America, alone, in 1938 as part of the "One Thousand Children" mission started by Christian groups in America. The sad realization is that only 1200 children were accepted into the country over a decade because there were people appalled by taking in refugees so organizers kept to only ten children per month to avoid resistance. Sound familiar?
When I read a book, especially a true story, I feel such empathy for the story teller. I could not imagine, as a parent, making the decision to send my child halfway around the world as their only choice for survival. In this story, Edith talks of other children aboard the ship that brought them to America. One child was only six, also on his own. Six. That's my son's age. It broke my heart.
Hearing the story of events that brought her parents to this decision are also heart-wrenching. Neighbors, friends that had always been close to Edith's family suddenly saw them as "dirty" and "worthless". How powerful Hitler's words had to be to turn friends against each other is inconceivable to me. The devil was truly working through that man.
This book also made me realize the horror that our brothers and sisters in Christ must be going through in the Middle East. How long will we sit back and allow this to happen? I feel a WWIII is coming and none of us should be surprised when it does. The choices families have been forced to make, what would I do to protect my own family if it hits us here?
This is a great book and I strongly urge you to read it, if only to recognize the true pain of war through the eyes of the refugee. Through the eyes of a 12 year-old girl. Enjoy!
WWII will forever fascinate me and this book introduced me to another aspect of the war that I had never given much thought to. This is the true story of a 12 year-old girl whose family chose to send her to America, alone, in 1938 as part of the "One Thousand Children" mission started by Christian groups in America. The sad realization is that only 1200 children were accepted into the country over a decade because there were people appalled by taking in refugees so organizers kept to only ten children per month to avoid resistance. Sound familiar?
When I read a book, especially a true story, I feel such empathy for the story teller. I could not imagine, as a parent, making the decision to send my child halfway around the world as their only choice for survival. In this story, Edith talks of other children aboard the ship that brought them to America. One child was only six, also on his own. Six. That's my son's age. It broke my heart.
Hearing the story of events that brought her parents to this decision are also heart-wrenching. Neighbors, friends that had always been close to Edith's family suddenly saw them as "dirty" and "worthless". How powerful Hitler's words had to be to turn friends against each other is inconceivable to me. The devil was truly working through that man.
This book also made me realize the horror that our brothers and sisters in Christ must be going through in the Middle East. How long will we sit back and allow this to happen? I feel a WWIII is coming and none of us should be surprised when it does. The choices families have been forced to make, what would I do to protect my own family if it hits us here?
This is a great book and I strongly urge you to read it, if only to recognize the true pain of war through the eyes of the refugee. Through the eyes of a 12 year-old girl. Enjoy!
Tuesday, April 18, 2017
Week 15: April 10
"The Kept Woman" by Karin Slaughter
Slaughter is the perfect name for the author of this book because it opens up with a slaughter that sets in motion the tone of the book. Karin Slaughter holds nothing back in the description of that gruesome scene she is unfolding for her audience and there were times I had to put the book down because I felt I was going to faint picturing the scene in my head. But I'm kind of a weak-ling in that regard!
This book kept me turning the page to figure out the "who-dun-it". Usually I'm not a fan when the auther goes back and forth between character stories but I did not feel lost and she timed the transitions so well that her story was easy to follow.
Reading through this book I went through emotions of pity, anger, frustration....every emotion to keep you in the book. The twists weren't too out of left-field and I felt like I was becoming the detective with trying to figure out what the next twist would be.
This book was very entertaining and I would recommend it if you're looking for a good suspense.
Slaughter is the perfect name for the author of this book because it opens up with a slaughter that sets in motion the tone of the book. Karin Slaughter holds nothing back in the description of that gruesome scene she is unfolding for her audience and there were times I had to put the book down because I felt I was going to faint picturing the scene in my head. But I'm kind of a weak-ling in that regard!
This book kept me turning the page to figure out the "who-dun-it". Usually I'm not a fan when the auther goes back and forth between character stories but I did not feel lost and she timed the transitions so well that her story was easy to follow.
Reading through this book I went through emotions of pity, anger, frustration....every emotion to keep you in the book. The twists weren't too out of left-field and I felt like I was becoming the detective with trying to figure out what the next twist would be.
This book was very entertaining and I would recommend it if you're looking for a good suspense.
Sunday, April 9, 2017
Week 14: April 3
"Suicide Notes from Beautiful Girls" by Lynn Weingarten
I could NOT put this book down! It's about a teenager, June, and her deep friendship with Delia. These two teens are more than best friends. They have a connection unlike any other and when June allows the friendhip to phase out, let's just say it gets interesting.
Lies, suicide, drugs, alcohol. It's crazy. And I do mean, crazy good. Makes me even more worried to have teenagers!
I could NOT put this book down! It's about a teenager, June, and her deep friendship with Delia. These two teens are more than best friends. They have a connection unlike any other and when June allows the friendhip to phase out, let's just say it gets interesting.
Lies, suicide, drugs, alcohol. It's crazy. And I do mean, crazy good. Makes me even more worried to have teenagers!
Monday, April 3, 2017
Week 13: March 27
"Choosing to SEE" by Mary Beth Chapman
I journeyed back to the non-fiction variety this last week. I was hesitant to read this book because it focused on the loss of a child. Something that I most fear. But is was also a great testimony to how God works in such mysterious ways and how we become closer to Him through our struggles more than through our perfection.
I often am reminded on how God wants us as we are. He doesn't want us to be perfect, he knows we're going to be messy which is why He sent the ultimate sacrifice, Jesus Christ.
It was hard for me to read this book because I think it reminded me a lot of myself and of the things I yearn to do but continually talk myself out of. Mary Beth suffered through depression and anxiety as I feel all do at some point and unfortunately, she struggled to get out of her funk. It reminded me of my "dark days" after Nora was born and how the only way I survived it (and my family survived it) was through prayer.
Mary Beth's story of how she trusts God, and how this can be difficult at times but so worth it in the end is very inspiring. Her 5-year-old daughter was hit by her 17-year-old son and killed. It was a horrible accident and was the main focus of the book. I was amazed with the reality of the situation that her husband made sure to tell thier son that he loved him as he was obviously distraught over what he had done.
The Chapman family while getting though their grief, no "over it", were able to expand their ministries and testimonies for Christ. We all need reminding that God doesn't intend for our lives to be perfect. We are going to mess up, tragedies are going to happen, and all the while, God is there for us. Ready to embrace us and guide us through our healing. Our God is such a good God.
I recommend this book, if anything, to realize the beauty of healing. Of how to turn a tragedy into an opportunity for good. To quote the book, "to take what Satan intended for evil and turn it into what God intended for good".
I journeyed back to the non-fiction variety this last week. I was hesitant to read this book because it focused on the loss of a child. Something that I most fear. But is was also a great testimony to how God works in such mysterious ways and how we become closer to Him through our struggles more than through our perfection.
I often am reminded on how God wants us as we are. He doesn't want us to be perfect, he knows we're going to be messy which is why He sent the ultimate sacrifice, Jesus Christ.
It was hard for me to read this book because I think it reminded me a lot of myself and of the things I yearn to do but continually talk myself out of. Mary Beth suffered through depression and anxiety as I feel all do at some point and unfortunately, she struggled to get out of her funk. It reminded me of my "dark days" after Nora was born and how the only way I survived it (and my family survived it) was through prayer.
Mary Beth's story of how she trusts God, and how this can be difficult at times but so worth it in the end is very inspiring. Her 5-year-old daughter was hit by her 17-year-old son and killed. It was a horrible accident and was the main focus of the book. I was amazed with the reality of the situation that her husband made sure to tell thier son that he loved him as he was obviously distraught over what he had done.
The Chapman family while getting though their grief, no "over it", were able to expand their ministries and testimonies for Christ. We all need reminding that God doesn't intend for our lives to be perfect. We are going to mess up, tragedies are going to happen, and all the while, God is there for us. Ready to embrace us and guide us through our healing. Our God is such a good God.
I recommend this book, if anything, to realize the beauty of healing. Of how to turn a tragedy into an opportunity for good. To quote the book, "to take what Satan intended for evil and turn it into what God intended for good".
Tuesday, March 28, 2017
Week 12: March 20
"Dark Places" by Gillian Flynn
I promise I had this book done in time but it has been hectic around here and so I am now just getting to the review. I'll try to do better this week!
One thing I will say is that after the last few weeks of emotional readings and positive outlooks I had to adjust to the dark world of Gillian Flynn. I loved her book "Gone Girl" and this book had the same eerie, "I can't believe I'm reading this" type of feel.
"Dark Places" follows Libby Day, a massacre survivor that becomes desperate for cash and agrees to look into her family's murders for monetary compensation. At first she is half-assed with the search but then begins to realize she may be on to something that takes her down a dangerous road.
I finished this book in two days because I couldn't put it down, trying to go through characters and figure out who did it. I really do enjoy suspsense novels and it flowed so well I couldn't find a good spot to stop.
So if you're in the mood for a suspense, I would recommend "Dark Places".
I promise I had this book done in time but it has been hectic around here and so I am now just getting to the review. I'll try to do better this week!
One thing I will say is that after the last few weeks of emotional readings and positive outlooks I had to adjust to the dark world of Gillian Flynn. I loved her book "Gone Girl" and this book had the same eerie, "I can't believe I'm reading this" type of feel.
"Dark Places" follows Libby Day, a massacre survivor that becomes desperate for cash and agrees to look into her family's murders for monetary compensation. At first she is half-assed with the search but then begins to realize she may be on to something that takes her down a dangerous road.
I finished this book in two days because I couldn't put it down, trying to go through characters and figure out who did it. I really do enjoy suspsense novels and it flowed so well I couldn't find a good spot to stop.
So if you're in the mood for a suspense, I would recommend "Dark Places".
Tuesday, March 21, 2017
Week 11: March 13
"You Win in the Locker Room First" by Jon Gordon and Mike Smith
I have read Jon Gordon before with "The Hard Hat" and I really enjoy his philosophies on teamwork. This book builds on that with the 7 C's for developing a winning team. The "team" can be anything from sports teams to business to life. We all could use these concepts to help us focus on what's important and how to get out of the "me" mindset that our culture is turning into.
The 7 C's are:
1. Culture
2. Contagious
3. Consistent
4. Communicate
5. Connect
6. Commitment
7. Care
Along with the "Big C" of Character and the "Other Big C" of Coaching. I admit, I fall short in many if not all of these categories most days and it takes reminders to not be an "energy vampire", someone who sucks all the positivity out of a room. Personally, I feed off of others' energies so if I am around someone negative, it doesn't take me long to fall right beside them. This is something I have had to work on in every aspect of my life from marriage to my career. It's so easy to be downers but it takes true perseverence to be a positive influence.
Growing up in sports I love how Jon makes his writing relatable to not only sports teams but businesses as well. At work, we talk a lot about wanting to be a team but there are many days where we feel more dvided because we are missing some of the crucial "C" components. I am wanting to bring this book to my director and co-workers' attention to see where we feel we are lacking.
As I read this book, I did bring the concepts into my everyday life. At times it was easier than others but I did notice where I was personally lacking more than others and also how it feels to push past that negativity and go forward with a more positive outlook. It felt a lot better than the self-pity I was allowing myself to have over this or that in my life. I encourage you to pick up this book. It's an easy, short read (even though it took me longer to read it due to personal distractionss) and gives you a sense of clarity on how to live your life. Enjoy!
I have read Jon Gordon before with "The Hard Hat" and I really enjoy his philosophies on teamwork. This book builds on that with the 7 C's for developing a winning team. The "team" can be anything from sports teams to business to life. We all could use these concepts to help us focus on what's important and how to get out of the "me" mindset that our culture is turning into.
The 7 C's are:
1. Culture
2. Contagious
3. Consistent
4. Communicate
5. Connect
6. Commitment
7. Care
Along with the "Big C" of Character and the "Other Big C" of Coaching. I admit, I fall short in many if not all of these categories most days and it takes reminders to not be an "energy vampire", someone who sucks all the positivity out of a room. Personally, I feed off of others' energies so if I am around someone negative, it doesn't take me long to fall right beside them. This is something I have had to work on in every aspect of my life from marriage to my career. It's so easy to be downers but it takes true perseverence to be a positive influence.
Growing up in sports I love how Jon makes his writing relatable to not only sports teams but businesses as well. At work, we talk a lot about wanting to be a team but there are many days where we feel more dvided because we are missing some of the crucial "C" components. I am wanting to bring this book to my director and co-workers' attention to see where we feel we are lacking.
As I read this book, I did bring the concepts into my everyday life. At times it was easier than others but I did notice where I was personally lacking more than others and also how it feels to push past that negativity and go forward with a more positive outlook. It felt a lot better than the self-pity I was allowing myself to have over this or that in my life. I encourage you to pick up this book. It's an easy, short read (even though it took me longer to read it due to personal distractionss) and gives you a sense of clarity on how to live your life. Enjoy!
Tuesday, March 14, 2017
Week 10: Mar 6
"If I Get to Five" by Fred Epstein, M.D., and Joshua Horwitz
There is no doubt that the last couple of books I've read have been a little heavy on the heart strings but I have no regret that I got through them. This book reminds me of what life is really about. It's about being loved and being heard no matter what stage of life you're in.
Dr. Epstein gives example after example of children that have inspired him. Children. These are the people we should look to when we want to know what makes us happy in life. The innocence that children have brings a new light to life. I think of that often with my own children. Do they really care what kind of furniture we have or how big our house is or how many vacations we take? No. They care that they are loved and cared for. They care that mommy and daddy are with them to play with them and read to them.
I really enjoyed this book and how each chapter is laid out to teach us how to live life through the mind of a child. It's easy to let bills and labels get in the way of our happiness as adults and a daily reminder of what really matters gives me a new perspective on life.
There is no doubt that the last couple of books I've read have been a little heavy on the heart strings but I have no regret that I got through them. This book reminds me of what life is really about. It's about being loved and being heard no matter what stage of life you're in.
Dr. Epstein gives example after example of children that have inspired him. Children. These are the people we should look to when we want to know what makes us happy in life. The innocence that children have brings a new light to life. I think of that often with my own children. Do they really care what kind of furniture we have or how big our house is or how many vacations we take? No. They care that they are loved and cared for. They care that mommy and daddy are with them to play with them and read to them.
I really enjoyed this book and how each chapter is laid out to teach us how to live life through the mind of a child. It's easy to let bills and labels get in the way of our happiness as adults and a daily reminder of what really matters gives me a new perspective on life.
Wednesday, March 8, 2017
Feb 27: Week 9
"Lone Survivor" by Marcus Luttrell with Patrick Robinson
Like I said before, I am really starting to love autobiographies! It's that raw, harsh truth that just really sucks me in and Lone Survivor was no different. I have to admit, it did take me longer than a week to read this one because of a variety of factors and I have no doubt if I had begun reading this at any other week, I would have finished earlier. But I didn't so here's my late post on it!
Marcus Luttrell tells this story as if he's sitting in his favorite chair in his own living room. Just reliving the Navy SEAL life. At times it could be annoying, but this was the raw reality I was talking about. There are times he's more laid back and humerous in telling the story and then he is focused and serious when he needs to be to make you see and feel what he went through.
I had a lot of emotions reading this story as I often do with a true story. I don't normally cry when I'm reading a book, but this one I had to stop a few times because I couldn't see the words from tears overflowing. It was intense. Not only with the main story of the book, when Marcus and three other Navy SEALs became over-powered by the Taliban in the Afghanistan mountains, but when he expressed how military men and women are treated by the USA. The very country they are fighting for. It was gut-wrenching, heart-breaking, embarassing, how we don't give these very brave people the respect that they deserve. As Marcus says in the book, not everyone can be a SEAL. It takes a very special person who is physically and mentally strong to go through what these men and women go through to protect us who are constantly judging them. It's sickening and I am ashamed at how they are treated. They deserve so much more.
Marcus pays a beautiful tribute to the three fallen SEALs that were with him on the mountain as well as the others that sacrificed their lives to rescue them. The details he gives to their lives and their last breathing moments really pulled me in.
If you don't think the military does enough or they don't deserve the best of care, read this book. Even if you do have a deep respect for them, this book moves it to an entirely different level. Finishing the book, I couldn't help but hope that my own son would be brave enough to join the military, at any level. Nothing would make me prouder. Thank you to all that have served, are serving, were hoping to serve but couldn't for any reason, thank you for all your sacrifice and loyalty to the USA.
Like I said before, I am really starting to love autobiographies! It's that raw, harsh truth that just really sucks me in and Lone Survivor was no different. I have to admit, it did take me longer than a week to read this one because of a variety of factors and I have no doubt if I had begun reading this at any other week, I would have finished earlier. But I didn't so here's my late post on it!
Marcus Luttrell tells this story as if he's sitting in his favorite chair in his own living room. Just reliving the Navy SEAL life. At times it could be annoying, but this was the raw reality I was talking about. There are times he's more laid back and humerous in telling the story and then he is focused and serious when he needs to be to make you see and feel what he went through.
I had a lot of emotions reading this story as I often do with a true story. I don't normally cry when I'm reading a book, but this one I had to stop a few times because I couldn't see the words from tears overflowing. It was intense. Not only with the main story of the book, when Marcus and three other Navy SEALs became over-powered by the Taliban in the Afghanistan mountains, but when he expressed how military men and women are treated by the USA. The very country they are fighting for. It was gut-wrenching, heart-breaking, embarassing, how we don't give these very brave people the respect that they deserve. As Marcus says in the book, not everyone can be a SEAL. It takes a very special person who is physically and mentally strong to go through what these men and women go through to protect us who are constantly judging them. It's sickening and I am ashamed at how they are treated. They deserve so much more.
Marcus pays a beautiful tribute to the three fallen SEALs that were with him on the mountain as well as the others that sacrificed their lives to rescue them. The details he gives to their lives and their last breathing moments really pulled me in.
If you don't think the military does enough or they don't deserve the best of care, read this book. Even if you do have a deep respect for them, this book moves it to an entirely different level. Finishing the book, I couldn't help but hope that my own son would be brave enough to join the military, at any level. Nothing would make me prouder. Thank you to all that have served, are serving, were hoping to serve but couldn't for any reason, thank you for all your sacrifice and loyalty to the USA.
Thursday, February 23, 2017
Feb 20: Week 8
"Woman of God" by James Patterson
"Woman of God" is a novel about a woman who experienced relentless suffering throughout her life and would begin to question God. Unprepared for the answer, God Himself spoke to her and would guide her on a path she would have never chosen for herself.
I have mixed feelings about this book. It is an amazing stroy of true faith and what can happen when you let your own guards down and allow God into your heart. As the book went it, it turned to a story of how the teachings of the Catholic Church could, should, or would change to allow women to be ordained as priests and even as Pope.
As a recent convert to catholocism, I had a very hard time with this portion of the story. It is fiction so I tried not to get too defensive over it, and it made me realize how little some people think of the Catholic church. There is a reason for the traditions and the beliefs of the Church and when you research catholocism, you grow to have a deep respect and understanding for those very traditions and beliefs.
If I was still a protestant, I would probably have enjoyed the book more but I just couldn't grasp onto what Patterson was trying to portray because I knew how ridiculous it would be. I kept telling myself, if Mother Theresa wasn't good enough to be considered pope, I don't know what woman would.
"Woman of God" is a novel about a woman who experienced relentless suffering throughout her life and would begin to question God. Unprepared for the answer, God Himself spoke to her and would guide her on a path she would have never chosen for herself.
I have mixed feelings about this book. It is an amazing stroy of true faith and what can happen when you let your own guards down and allow God into your heart. As the book went it, it turned to a story of how the teachings of the Catholic Church could, should, or would change to allow women to be ordained as priests and even as Pope.
As a recent convert to catholocism, I had a very hard time with this portion of the story. It is fiction so I tried not to get too defensive over it, and it made me realize how little some people think of the Catholic church. There is a reason for the traditions and the beliefs of the Church and when you research catholocism, you grow to have a deep respect and understanding for those very traditions and beliefs.
If I was still a protestant, I would probably have enjoyed the book more but I just couldn't grasp onto what Patterson was trying to portray because I knew how ridiculous it would be. I kept telling myself, if Mother Theresa wasn't good enough to be considered pope, I don't know what woman would.
Thursday, February 16, 2017
Feb 13: Week 7
"The Hard Hat" by Jon Gordon
This is the true story of Cornell Lacrosse player, George Boiardi, who died after taking a hit to the chest during a lacrosse match in 2004. The book is a story of the example that George left on his teammates, family, friends, and even strangers of what it meant to work hard and be humble.
With the direction sports is going, everyone gets caught up in the "me" game. Not very often do you hear about a "team effort" or players that are there for the "team". Growing up with the motto "There's no 'I' in team" seems to be lost on this generation of athletes. This book describes an individual that always put his team and others before himself and the impact that mentality left on those George left behind.
My husband recommended this book to me and it was a quick read with a great message. George reminded me of our own local fallen sports hero, Sam Foltz, and the legacy he has left behind based on his humility and his work ethic. I think of all sporting teams and how the Cornell coach had made a decision to only recruit players that he thougth fit his team motto and was willing to work hard, not recruited just for being the best player but for being the best teammate and how vital it is that more teams follow his example.
This book is a great lesson for all that hard work leaves more of a mark than a big mouth. I highly recommend this book!
This is the true story of Cornell Lacrosse player, George Boiardi, who died after taking a hit to the chest during a lacrosse match in 2004. The book is a story of the example that George left on his teammates, family, friends, and even strangers of what it meant to work hard and be humble.
With the direction sports is going, everyone gets caught up in the "me" game. Not very often do you hear about a "team effort" or players that are there for the "team". Growing up with the motto "There's no 'I' in team" seems to be lost on this generation of athletes. This book describes an individual that always put his team and others before himself and the impact that mentality left on those George left behind.
My husband recommended this book to me and it was a quick read with a great message. George reminded me of our own local fallen sports hero, Sam Foltz, and the legacy he has left behind based on his humility and his work ethic. I think of all sporting teams and how the Cornell coach had made a decision to only recruit players that he thougth fit his team motto and was willing to work hard, not recruited just for being the best player but for being the best teammate and how vital it is that more teams follow his example.
This book is a great lesson for all that hard work leaves more of a mark than a big mouth. I highly recommend this book!
Sunday, February 12, 2017
Feb 6: Week 6
"Something Other Than God...How I Passionately Sought Happiness and Accidentally Found It" by Jennifer Fulwiler
I really enjoyed this book! It's the true story of an atheist's conversion to Catholocism. This book shows how powerful the Holy Spirit can be as one question on faith leads to a completely new state of mind. What's funny is how long it can sometimes take especially when the path seems to be leading you to the Catholic faith.
She brought up a lot of hesitations and then realizations that I had, and some still do have, about the Catholic faith. It can be good to hear when someone else goes through the same obstacles and how they worked through them. We really aren't alone in this journey!
It's interesting coming from an Atheist's point of view because you really do start from scratch. Jennifer does such a great job of being open and honest throughout her journey that has you praying for her from the beginning and diving into issues you may personally have.
Good luck to Jennifer and her family and all others trying to find answers to God!
I really enjoyed this book! It's the true story of an atheist's conversion to Catholocism. This book shows how powerful the Holy Spirit can be as one question on faith leads to a completely new state of mind. What's funny is how long it can sometimes take especially when the path seems to be leading you to the Catholic faith.
She brought up a lot of hesitations and then realizations that I had, and some still do have, about the Catholic faith. It can be good to hear when someone else goes through the same obstacles and how they worked through them. We really aren't alone in this journey!
It's interesting coming from an Atheist's point of view because you really do start from scratch. Jennifer does such a great job of being open and honest throughout her journey that has you praying for her from the beginning and diving into issues you may personally have.
Good luck to Jennifer and her family and all others trying to find answers to God!
Monday, February 6, 2017
Jan 30: Week 5
"Persuasive Pro-Life" by Trent Horn
There's no question that abortion is a hot-button issue. I am pro-life but I am not a good debater so when I have people question me about why I am pro-life, I can get flustered and look more like an idiot rather than an educated person with a point of view. This book helps!
Not only does it discuss facts about pro-life vs pro-choice but demonstrates how to engage in a conversation in a civilized manner. I feel like there are so many people that are passionate on both sides that it's easy to become defensive and completely lose the points and facts you were wanting to bring up. This book also addresses the need to be compassionate to others, even when they don't have the same views as you do.
I hope to remember the points in the book when I become engaged in this topic of conversation so I can feel good about how I present my point of view to educate another on a topic I feel so strongly about!
There's no question that abortion is a hot-button issue. I am pro-life but I am not a good debater so when I have people question me about why I am pro-life, I can get flustered and look more like an idiot rather than an educated person with a point of view. This book helps!
Not only does it discuss facts about pro-life vs pro-choice but demonstrates how to engage in a conversation in a civilized manner. I feel like there are so many people that are passionate on both sides that it's easy to become defensive and completely lose the points and facts you were wanting to bring up. This book also addresses the need to be compassionate to others, even when they don't have the same views as you do.
I hope to remember the points in the book when I become engaged in this topic of conversation so I can feel good about how I present my point of view to educate another on a topic I feel so strongly about!
Thursday, January 26, 2017
Jan 23: Week 4
"Surprised by Truth 3" by Patrick Madrid
This book holds ten stories of individuals that have converted to the Catholic faith. A friend of mine loaned it to me when my husband and I began thinking of joining the Catholic Church and it definitely gave me some insight on Protestant vs Catholic. Funny enough, there was a lot of Baptists that converted and coming from an E-Free church whose pastor was from a Baptist background, I felt I could relate.
Some of the stories were a little deep for me, over my head on terms and practices that I've only begun to dive into on my own faith journey. I would recommend this book to anyone thinking of converting or just curious as to Catholic teachings. It can be a real eye opener!
Thursday, January 19, 2017
Jan 16: Week 3
"Twelve Years a Slave" - Solomon Northup
This is the amazing true story of a freeman, Solomon Northup, that was kidnapped and sold into slavery in the mid 1800's. The details he gives and the details he dedidedly omits, makes you cringe at the thought that such a thing existed in our country that promotes freedom and equality. Slaves were so often looked at as less than animals and treated just as harshly. It's no wonder there's still hositlity between the races.
I love a book that can bring out emotions in me. The most emotional part for me was when Solomon witnessed the separation of a mother and her young children. Just the thought of having your children taken from you and there is nothing, absolutey nothing you can do about it. There's no one to sympathize with you, no one to fight for you, only despair that you will never see your children again and not knowing what will happen to them without you to look over them. You are left with only the most evil thoughts of what your children will go through.
What Solomon was forced to do and how he was able to live through the hell he was put in, is a test of true perseverence.
I did see the movie before reading the book and I enjoyed both. One did not ruin the other. I recommend this book!
This is the amazing true story of a freeman, Solomon Northup, that was kidnapped and sold into slavery in the mid 1800's. The details he gives and the details he dedidedly omits, makes you cringe at the thought that such a thing existed in our country that promotes freedom and equality. Slaves were so often looked at as less than animals and treated just as harshly. It's no wonder there's still hositlity between the races.
I love a book that can bring out emotions in me. The most emotional part for me was when Solomon witnessed the separation of a mother and her young children. Just the thought of having your children taken from you and there is nothing, absolutey nothing you can do about it. There's no one to sympathize with you, no one to fight for you, only despair that you will never see your children again and not knowing what will happen to them without you to look over them. You are left with only the most evil thoughts of what your children will go through.
What Solomon was forced to do and how he was able to live through the hell he was put in, is a test of true perseverence.
I did see the movie before reading the book and I enjoyed both. One did not ruin the other. I recommend this book!
Saturday, January 14, 2017
Jan 9: Week 2
"The Forgotten Girls" by Sara Blaedel
This book tells the story of hidden crimes in the lead character's hometown. A woman is found dead and other assaults and disappearancs seem to be linked, going back decades. I enjoyed the suspense but some roads were left open. There are other books with the lead character and I'm sure if I read those I could find the ends to those roads. The linking of the characters was something that frustrated me, also. In a town supposedly that small, you would think the lead character would know more about the residents. But, it is fiction and anything can happen. A good read but not one I was overly intriged with.
This book tells the story of hidden crimes in the lead character's hometown. A woman is found dead and other assaults and disappearancs seem to be linked, going back decades. I enjoyed the suspense but some roads were left open. There are other books with the lead character and I'm sure if I read those I could find the ends to those roads. The linking of the characters was something that frustrated me, also. In a town supposedly that small, you would think the lead character would know more about the residents. But, it is fiction and anything can happen. A good read but not one I was overly intriged with.
Jan 2: Week 1
"My Name is Lucy Barton" by Elizabeth Strout
This is a story of the relationship between a mother and daughter. They have not seen each other in years but an illness brings them together once again. Old wounds are opened and some are never closed. It was a good story of how our history shapes our lives but the bouncing around made it feel jumbled to me. The book did tug at my heart, making me think of my own relationship with my mother and famiy secrets that I so badly want to uncover but will probably never take the opportunity. It was overall an easy read but I have yet to decide if I want to read another one of her books.
This is a story of the relationship between a mother and daughter. They have not seen each other in years but an illness brings them together once again. Old wounds are opened and some are never closed. It was a good story of how our history shapes our lives but the bouncing around made it feel jumbled to me. The book did tug at my heart, making me think of my own relationship with my mother and famiy secrets that I so badly want to uncover but will probably never take the opportunity. It was overall an easy read but I have yet to decide if I want to read another one of her books.
Thursday, January 12, 2017
New Year's Goals
Hello All!
New Year's is always a good time to reflect on goals you have for the year; there's the exercise goals, the behavior goals, the money goals. I went in a different direction and decided on a book goal. I love to read but don't give myself enough time to dedicate to it so my goal this year is to read one book a week for the entire year.
I have no preference on genre which is probably good because it would limit me too much and make me flustered and I would completely give up. Isn't that usually how New Year's resolutions go? At least I know I enjoy reading so it shouldn't be too terribly hard, should it?
To make it a little more interesting, every week after I finish the book, I will add a little "book review" to help others trying to find a good read!
Stay tuned!
New Year's is always a good time to reflect on goals you have for the year; there's the exercise goals, the behavior goals, the money goals. I went in a different direction and decided on a book goal. I love to read but don't give myself enough time to dedicate to it so my goal this year is to read one book a week for the entire year.
I have no preference on genre which is probably good because it would limit me too much and make me flustered and I would completely give up. Isn't that usually how New Year's resolutions go? At least I know I enjoy reading so it shouldn't be too terribly hard, should it?
To make it a little more interesting, every week after I finish the book, I will add a little "book review" to help others trying to find a good read!
Stay tuned!
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